Pyaar....Apney
aap mein ek Sanssar…self world.
Pyaar par kiska bas hai , yeh to bas ho jata hai..Kab
huya….Kaise huya..Kab ''uske'' liye bechain…..rahey lagey…..koi nahi jaan
pata..Aur jab ho jata hai tab baki bacha sara sanssar soona- soona sa lagne
lagta hai..Sirf ek hi CHAHAT….ek hi ZINDAGI.. Ek hi..AHSAAS.. Ek hi…KHUSHI…..Ek
hi….DHUN….Ek hi ..SOCH…. rah jati hai..
….''MERA PYAAR'' !!!!
Pyaar karney mein koi
burayi nahi hai lekin yadi yeh sirf DIL bahlaney ki baat hai to jara sambhal
jayein..kisi ki bhavnaon se khilwad na karey..iska aapko koi adhikar nahi mila
hai….DIL koi khilauna nahi jo issey khela jaye…KISI SE NAJDIKI BADANEY SE
PAHLEY YEH JAAN LEIN KI EK DOOSREY KE PRATI YEH AHSAS PYAAR HAI KI….CHHALAWA
!!!!Pyaar ek ahsaas hai jiski tarangey dil se judi hoti hain…isi liye jab iss
pyaar roopi ahsaas ke sath khilwad hota hai tab wo tarngey dil mein [heart-beat
and blood pumping] vibration kartin hain jisse wo normally work karna
band kar deta hai,,aur dard ka ahsaas hota hai….. Pyaar ek sukhad
anubhuti hai aur pyaar ek pavitra rishta hota hai. Do yuva apni
baatein,,ruchiyaan , dukh-sukh baant te huye kab najdeek aa jatey hain …pata hi
nahi chalta hai.Pyaar ka doosra naam ''pooja'' hai..jaise koi sachcha bhkat
apney bhagwan par sab arpit kar deta hai..tan-man- dhan!!! Kho jata hai apney
swami mein….isi prakar aapko apney pyaar par sab arpitkar dena chahiye…agar
''PYAAR' hai….yahan yeh dhyaan rahey ki aapko apna samajik evam
charitrik…[character ] HANAN nahi karna hai….aur agar wo sachcha pyaar hai
aapka to wo bhi kabhi nahi chahega…..Aap pyaar ke liye purn vishwas se,
bhavnaaon se, karm se…purntaya samarpit hon….yahi pyaar mangta hai.. aur yahi pyaar mein sacrifice hai. Jab
koi kisi se pyaar karta hai to usey aur jan ney evam samajh ney ke liye jyada
se jyada waqt 'uskey' sath gujarna chahta hai…apney SUKH- DUKH ke SATHI ko har
dam apney kareeb pana chahta hai….isse na sirf BHAVNATMAK majbooti milti hai
balki SURAKSHA ka ahsaas bhi hota hai. Aur yahin se start ho jati hain
pyaar mein…HOPES & EXPECTATIONS… .din b din apki apney PYAAR se …HOPES
& EXPECTATIONS… badney lagti hain aur jab yeh poori nahi ho pati hain tab
aap apney ko HURT mahsoos kartey ho….lagta hai PYAAR dil tod deta
hai…….PYAAR…dhokha hai… Lekin , Yahin par ek doosra pahloo hai…Aap bhi to
''uska'' PYAAR ho…aap bhi to 'usko' hurt kar rahey ho..khud ko hurt
samjhkar…aapse bhi to usko' …HOPES & EXPECTATIONS… hongi….yahi hum bhool
jatey hain…shayad swarthipan mein….agar aap yeh sochtey hain ki 'wo'aapko
samjhey..tab aapko bhi to ''usko'' samjhna hoga…. Pyaar ka doosra naam vishwas
hai…jahan vishwas nahi wahan Pyaar ki chhaya tak nahi..kahtein hain..aankh band
kar vishwas nahi karna chahiye mera manna hai ki agar aap sachchey premi hain
to aapka pyaar sachcha hai to kyon nahi karna chahiye aankh band kar
vishwas…karna chahiye yahi pyaar hai..aur tabhi pyaar hai…tabhi aapkey pyaar ke
rishtey mein atoot majbooti aayegi… Jab …HOPES & EXPECTATIONS… aapas mein
takraney lagtin hain to aap HURT mahsoos kartey hain par aapko samjhna chahiye
ki NEWTON ka 3rd law kya hai….Reaction to hogi hi…sure..Agar PYAAR
hai to aapko sure …HURT bhi hona padega,,,agar aapko koi apna bahut bahut pyaar
luta raha hai to yeh jaroori hai ki aapko ussey hurt bhi hona pad sakta
hai….fir break-up kyon??
Kyon udaas,,, kyon tanha..? kaisa dhokha???Aapko iskey liye ready rahana
chahiye …aur kisi bhi pal aapka 'pyaar' aapko hurt kar raha ho..to aapko us
pal….apni sadabahar MUSKAN ke sath rahna chahiye…apni shaitani..apna joking
nature..wahi rahna chahiye…mind cool cool ..wahi samarpan..wahi tyaag,,wahi
chah..…dekhiye fir wahi pal kiteney pyaar mein badal jayengey….aur agar aap bhi
us pal anger mood mein aa jayengey tab yeh PYAAR kahan…?? Yeh to aapka swarthi
pyaar hoga..ki jab tak samney wala aapko khush kiye huye hai aap khush kiye
huye ho usko,,aur jab wo nahi tab aap bhi nahi….nahi nahi yeh pyaar nahi….PYAAR
mein ''ek narm aur ek garm'' ka sidhhaant lagoo rakhiye…kabhi kuchh galat nahi
hoga….yeh mera vishwas hai..Word 'hurt' is the part of 'love'…..agar koi kisi
se bahut pyaar karta hai to usko usse hurt bhi hona padega,,yeh universal truth
hai..aur jab tak aap yeh nahi samjh payengey…tabhi pyaar mein BREAK-UP
..aayega…….aarree jaroori to nahi ki aapko jo…HOPES & EXPECTATIONS…
hain..unko poora karney mein aapkey 'pyaar' ke samney us pal koi majboori ho
sakti hai..time ki…money ki….ghar ki…ya aur koi…aur us pal aapkey pyaar ko bhi
aapse …HOPES & EXPECTATIONS… hogi ki aap usko aur uski majboori ko
samjhogey….jitna aap sochtey ho ki 'usko' apko samajhna chahiye..utna hi 'wo'
bhi sochta hoga ki aap 'usko' samjho…Co-operation jaroori hai..jab co-operation
hoga…ek-doosrey ko samjhney ki high thinking power hogi tabhi aapka pyaar
sachcha hoga aur yeh din doona raat chauga parwan hoga…. Pyaar mein chhoti moti
ladayiaan [ adayein] to chalti rahtin hain kabhi an-ban,,kabhi anger
love..kabhi hot – talk, bol-chal band….yeh sab pyaar ka hi hissa hota
hai..issey pyaar badta hai..kyonki jab yeh sab hota hai tab dil mein jo kuchh
hota hai sab nikaal detey hain hum jo ek doosrey ke liye bhara hota hai..ki
aapney yeh kiya aapney wo kiya.. Issey pyaar mein craze aata hai,,enjoy,,
romance badta hai..ruthney mananey ka silsila chalta hai..jab pyaar ruthega
tabhi to aap manogey aur tabhi to aapko aur jyada pyaar karney ka avsar milega
usko chhoney ka..pyaar karney ka…what a LOVE-FIGHT!! aur iskey baad jab fir
apni usi manbhavan rangat mein aatey hai tab dil shudhh ,,mind fresh
& cool hotey hain ,,aur jyada pyaar hota hai…doosrey par balihari
janey wala pyaar…. Its important part of this Mail…Yadi kabhi aapki apney pyaar
se kisi baat par jhagda ho jaye aur ek –doosre se alag ho…bol-chal band ho..tab
LOVE-EXAM hota hai…Generally aap us pal sab negative thinking laogey apney man
mein…'uski' buraiyaan,,uska jhagda karna..uska hurt karna…aisa hi bahut kuchh….
Aur yahi sab aapkey mind ko aur narrow karta jayega aur misunderstanding.
.& may be possible..BREAK- UP !!!! Lekin mera manna hai ki jab aapka yeh
jhagda ho tab aapko sab POSITIVE sochna chahiye…apney pyaar mein gujra har
lamha…uski funny talks,,,uskey jokes,, uski adaayein,,uski kashish…uskey good
manners,,,aapkey liye uskey sacrifices…uska aapko pyaar karney ke ways,,,socho
ki wo har pal kitna apna best attempt karta hai ki aap khush raho smile ke
sath…socho aap ki wo raat-din aapkey hi sapney dekhta hai..socho wo sab jo aap
logon ne apni sapno ki duniya banayi hai,,socho wo sab jo future plans banayein
hain,,socho wo har lamha jismein aap aur wo samaye ho ek – doosrey mein….pyaar
ke wo pal…..socho uska samarpan!!! Fir dekho aap kya hota hai….aap rah nahi
paogey ek bhi pal ''uskey' bina..bechain ho jaogey,,''uskey'' liye,..aur bhagey
bhagey jaogey ussey milney….aur bas …DONO SAMA JAYENGEY…EK- DOOSREY MEIN…PYAAR
KE AAGOSH MEIN…..WO BHI AAPKO APNI DIL-O-JAAN SE JYADA PYAAR KARTA HAI…… SO BE
IN LOVE………BELIEVE IN LOVE……FAITH WITH YOUR LOVE… SMILE IN LOVE……SAVE & SAFE
YOUR LOVE…..BEST OF LUCK TO ALL LOVERS……… Merey iss Mail ko padkar kisi bhi
lovers ko aney pyaar mein koi bhi help milegi to main samjhoonga ki mera yeh
Mail likhna safal huya….
Aur Ho Sakey To Sam Ko Ek Reply Jaroor Dena........ ...
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